Relationship Revolution

Modern Guidance for Alternative Relationships, Queer Love & Erotic Liberation

I want you to have the relationships you deeply desire.

The kind that turn you on, make you feel alive, and align with freedom, honesty, and love.

The world needs your creativity in relating outside of patriarchal norms.

I know what it’s like to feel suffocated by monogamy, caged by heteronormativity, and ashamed of desiring something far outside of the status quo. I know what it’s like to yearn for more autonomy, to feel stuck inside the closet, to wonder if something is wrong with you for wanting more.

Woman with curly hair leaning against a tree in a forest, wearing a black outfit and a fuzzy coat.

I’ve been where you are.

When I began my journey into alternative relationship styles six years ago, I had no idea what I was getting into.

No one taught me how to navigate this new way of relating. No one told me how much it would stir up my emotions, how awkward and messy it would feel, or how deeply it would crack open my heart. I didn’t know it would help me uncover a more authentic sexual orientation and challenge every story I had been told about love.

I struggled. I felt lost. I carried so much shame and fear around my needs and wants that it felt impossible to express them. I compared myself to others. I doubted my ability to “do” non-monogamy “right.”

But I stayed. I kept exploring because this way of relating aligned with my deep values of love and liberation. I read all the books, talked to the “experts,” made (and still make) mistakes.

I’ve created relationships rooted in trust, freedom, erotic power, and authenticity.

Now, I help others do the same.

What we’ll explore together

A blend of coaching, skill-building, and erotic expansion.

Coaching, personal development, emotional processing, skill-building, and erotic exploration for individuals, couples, throuples, and polycules navigating alternative relationships—polyamory, non-monogamy, open relationships, and beyond.

Whether you're opening up for the first time, deepening existing connections, or struggling with jealousy, communication, or sex—I’m here as your ally and guide.

You do not have to figure this out alone—come play and learn the skills that will make this non-monogamy thing fun.

This work helps you create relationship dynamics that are intentional, alive, and yours.

This work is for people who:

  • Are stepping outside of monogamy and heteronormativity

  • Want to explore and experiment with new ways of loving

  • Are ready to reimagine love, sex, commitment, and security

  • Are curious, courageous, and hungry for connection on their terms

This is a relationship laboratory. We will be experimenting, playing, and creating newness by listening deeply to your desires and your consent.

Through our work together, you will:

  • Explore your fears, shame and insecurities with curiosity and compassion

  • Understand your “yes” and your “no” in relationship

  • Learn the art of deep, enthusiastic consent

  • Better navigate the complexity of non-monogamy

  • Craft relationships that excite you and turn you on

  • Communicate your feelings and boundaries with honesty, confidence and care

Imagine having relationships that are not threatened by more love and more lovers, but welcoming of them.

Imagine feeling excited for yourself and your partner when you make new connections, instead of jealous or scared. Imagine having more support, ease and excitement in your relationships than you ever thought possible. 

The Investment:

For individuals, couples, throuples, polycules

  • 55 minutes (individuals only): $200

  • 85 minutes: $300 (+$25 per extra person)

  • 110 minutes: $400 (+$25 per extra person)

WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING:

"Working with Lessey has helped me transition my primary relationship to consensual non-monogamy, maintain it, and continue to develop, grow and manage the unique situations that emerge."

– J.L.

"Working with Lessey helped me learn how to communicate my needs and boundaries clearly, lovingly and directly."

– Carol P.

"It has helped being able to talk through challenges with someone who actually understands the complexities of polyamory. I feel like I'm finally being my true self and living an authentic life."

– Jes W.

Ready to rewrite the rules?

You don’t have to choose between love and freedom.
Between commitment and autonomy.
Between erotic truth and emotional safety.

You get to have relationships that are alive, honest, sovereign—and yours.

Let’s build them together.